Threshold
Become the man your relationships & purpose require.
Self Mastery - Emotional Capacity - Relational Leadership
Next Cohort Starts September 2nd 2026
12 Weeks
10 Men
1 Personal Transformation
You want a relationship that actually feels good — alive, honest, close. And you want a life that feels like it's actually yours — built around something you care about, not just whatever's already in front of you. You're ready for both. You're just not sure why neither one is happening, or why the same patterns keep getting in the way.
Maybe you've already tried the normal stuff — the books, the podcasts, the dating advice, the "just communicate better", the meditation app — and some of it helped for a minute. But it didn't actually move the thing underneath:
You know what you need to say in the relationship — and you don't say it
You doubt yourself when it comes to speaking up at work
You want to ask her out, or tell her how you feel, and something stops you every time
You get reactive or defensive the moment you feel criticized, even by people you love
There is a deeper fear preventing your from showing up as a Leader in your life
Something feels off internally and you know there is a deeper vision ready to come alive
You keep it together for her, for them, for everyone, and have no idea who's holding you
You're successful in some parts of life and still feel like you're failing at the parts that matter most
You know there's a bigger version of your life and work you're meant for
Most of this isn't really about your partner, or the job, or whatever's in front of you. It's an old pattern running the show without your permission — one you didn't choose and were never taught how to change.
If this is you, you're not broken and you're not alone. You just were never taught the skills your relationships — and your purpose — actually require. That's what Threshold is.
WHAT THRESHOLD IS
Threshold is a modern-day initiation — 12 weeks built to help you become the man your relationships, and your purpose require.
Our ancestors had rites of passage to help us grow into emotional & spiritual maturity from boy to man, but it’s something our present day society has lost. Most men were never taught the skills or modeled healthy behavior for what it means to lead as a man in the world.
Threshold isn’t another communication hack or productivity system to add to the pile. It's the foundation underneath all of it — the skills in presence, self-trust, and emotional command that most men were simply never taught, and that every real relationship and every real ambition eventually asks for. Once you have them, the rest — the communication, the connection, the direction, the trust — starts to actually work.
Before you can lead a relationship or build a vision, you have to lead yourself. Before you can lead yourself, you have to know yourself.
You are the common denominator in every relationship you've ever had, and every version of your future you've tried to build. Change how you show up, and both start responding differently.
THE TRANSFORMATION
Here's what changes for the men who go through Threshold — in their own words:
"I finally stopped avoiding the hard conversations with my partner and now family life is happier and more balanced.”
"Far stronger leader at work and in the business community."
“I was able to stop taking my prescription anxiety and feel emotional freedom for the first time in my life.”
"I can remain calm and grounded when things are falling apart — and when I do slip, it's milder, and I recover faster."
I quit my corporate job and started the business I’ve been talking about for years, AND I surpassed my old income in just two months.”
“I’m taking charge in ways I never thought I could. With friends, at work and in public situations.”
“This program gave me the courage to start taking Karate classes at 60, something I always said I was too old for.”
"My confidence and ability to trust my decisions, at work and at home.”
“I’ve finally walked away from the toxic relationship and know I deserve better.”
“It sounds so silly but I learned how to use the word “no”. I never thought having healthy boundaries could be so liberating.”
"I worry less about what everyone else is thinking, and start taking action on what’s important."
“My wife and I have deepened our intimacy 10x. She says she can finally feel me because I’ve opened up emotionally.”
“I’ve navigated so many hard conversations at work with ease. Employees used to be so guarded and shut down, but now they are open to feedback.”
Men have quit addictions to porn, alcohol, prescription medicine and nicotine through this program.
At the core, it comes down to two things: having the confidence to trust yourself, and building a presence that others want to follow.
When you trust yourself, you go after what you want instead of talking yourself out of it. You say what you actually feel instead of swallowing it for the tenth time. You stop circling the bigger move you keep avoiding — the business, the project, the direction — and you actually take it.
When you're someone others can trust, you stop being reactive and defensive the moment you feel exposed. She stops bracing around you and starts opening up to you. People start following your lead instead of just tolerating it.
This program is transformational in nature. We will find the patterns and habits holding you back and help you release them for good so you can step into the most authentic and powerful version of you.
Men’s work has changed my life. It has pulled me out of spiraling anxiety, saved relationships, and put me on point and on purpose - allowing me to step into my power as a leader and a man. I’m now more connected to my purpose, grounded, compassionate, sensitive, confident, a better partner, skilled communicator, and overall better human being because of it. It is clear my mission is to bring this work and sense of Freedom to men. -Taylor
THE PROCESS
Threshold is built on 3 pillars:
Self Mastery
Emotional Capacity
Relational Leadership
Throughout the program you will be guided on a three part journey of becoming a self led man who is aware, present and living on purpose. You’ll get clear on the vision for your life, you’re values and how to be yourself in the face of challenge or discomfort.
In order to be in relationship and live out your purpose you have to have emotional intelligence and nervous system capacity to hold yourself and others. A regulated nervous system (or the ability to get there) is a superpower in the modern world. You’ll learn the skills to grow your capacity and shift your baseline so that what once felt like an emergency is now a walk in the park.
Most leadership out there is very “I” focused. Do this, and say that. It usually goes over like a bull in a china shop and is very fear based. We focuse on the relational, because everything in life is relational. Relationship to ourselves, our loved ones, our community, our business, etc. Being a man who leads well is about having the relational skills to connect, communicate and have a presence people want to follow. This increases intimacy and trust.
What The Men Are Saying
WHY THIS WORKS
Most men are stuck because they attack their problems through a temporary strategy that is only scratching the surface.
I work with men every day who are grasping for the right tactic, tool or perfect phrase to help them get what they want in life. Constantly looking for the next book, podcast or 5 step method to get results.
This is only really addressing the symptoms in their life with a band- aid approach.
This program will help you move beyond the symptoms and get to the root cause holding you back.
You’re here because you have tried tirelessly to change the content of your life.
The content is the external things in your world. You can’t lose weight so you bounce from diet to diet trying to find the “right one”. You doubt yourself as a Leader so turn to the latest leadership books and do whatever it says. Your match your partner’s complaints with people pleasing and date nights. The problem is without looking at the context (internal things), it’s like slapping duct tape on a leaky boat.
The context goes below the surface. It’s changing your inner world and identity to evoke a different response in the people around you.
My process will dive deeper into questions like…
Why can’t you seem to be consistent?
What is your authentic leadership style and how can you cultivate confidence with self trust?
What fear is preventing you from deeper vulnerability and presence?
You must shift the internal to create the external world you desire. The old you (you’re programming, conditioning, way of operating) has to die to step into a new way of being and see what becomes possible from this place.
It is the only way to have lasting change.
You are the through line all of life’s challenges, struggles and obstacles. When you change your identity you start to attract more abundance, results and positive relationships in the world around you.
When you embody authentic confidence, people want to follow you.
When you lead your relationship with grounded presence, she will open to more intimacy with you.
When you trust yourself, others will want to buy from you.
The change you’ve been hoping for is all about identity shaping into a Leader that embodies authenticity.
Skills
Build the self-trust to take action on your dreams and ask for what you want
Say what you actually feel instead of swallowing it, again
Get to the root and clear out the reactivity & defensiveness that keeps showing up with the people you love
Get clear on the vision and purpose you keep circling instead of building
Build real emotional intelligence — not suppression, not explosion
Learn nervous system regulation tools that work in the moment, with her, in the hard conversation, under real pressure
Improve how you communicate and resolve conflict
Understand the blind spots quietly shaping your relationships and your leadership
Break through the stories and patterns holding you back from real intimacy and real direction
Deepen your closest relationships — partner, family, and friends
Build real brotherhood with other men — not performative, actual
WHO I’VE WORKED WITH
Bankers
Ironman Triathlon World Qualifiers
Physical Therapists
Police & SWAT Team Leaders
College Students
Director of Sales
Fitness Coaches
Creatives & Designers
Pilot
Scuba & Dive Instructor
Financial Wealth Managers
Pro Bodybuilder
Founders & CEO’s
Entrepreneurs
State Trooper
Church Pastor
Gym Owners
Photographer & Videographer
Engineer
Endurance Coach
What to Expect
Connect to the subconscious programming that’s preventing you from living authentic and fully expressed in the world
Learn to lead your relationships with confidence and love
Sharpen and clarify your mission in the world
Experience a deep sense of brotherhood full of accountability and camaraderie
Embody a more grounded presence as a man in the world
Relate with more depth and understanding to the feminine in your life
Learn to create a culture that evokes growth, connection and coherence at work, home and in your relationships
Learn the physical and meditative practices that make you more trustable as leader, lover and man in the world
You will deepen your capacity to handle stress, discomfort and challenge in your life so you can stay on purpose
Create new healthy patterns to live a life of alignment and freedom
Understand and expand into the qualities of mature masculinity
Push through your edges of discomfort to create lasting impact and change in your life
Take complete ownership and control of your life
Deepen your transmission for lasting impact in the world
The Program Details
12 Group Zoom Calls (90 minutes each & all recorded)
Signal Group Chat
Weekly Breathwork & Embodiment Practices
Educational Video Modules
Weekly Growth Assignments
Live Q&A on Group Calls
How this Program Works…
This program is based in Embodied Leadership
To embody is to “take the shape of”, and relates to our own unique energetic signature. Imagine the macho overly cocky guy at the gym, or the super timid colleague at the office - they eacgh have a certain shape and felt sense when you are around them.
Also imagine the “girl next door” you have a crush on, she embodies a radiance that’s magnetic.
We are all embodying something that is directly connected to the results and relationships we attract in life. The good news is we can change this.
This program will go beyond strategy, internal beliefs and tactics and dive into the energetic presence you bring to the world.
Shifting your default presence or what I call “transmission”, will have the biggest impact on creating change in your life. Your transmission is what shows up in a room when you do.
It’s how you make people feel.
If you aren’t getting the result you want you might be embodying self doubt, fear or chaos. People may feel you on edge in your presence. Something in you could feel less trustable.
It’s why they don’t want to buy from you, say yes to a date or push back against your leadership.
This program will guide you to be an embodied leader that evokes more trust, presences, love and inspiration in others.
Becoming a magnetic and powerful presence.
Program Structure And Schedule:
All Zoom calls will be held on Wednesdays at 5:00pm-6:30pm MST.
Please be prepared to show up on camera, from a computer or desktop in a space free of distraction.
You are committing to make all calls unless something is arranged in advance with Taylor.
Zoom Calls will be held on Wednesdays at 5:00pm-6:30pm, MST
Threshold Program Dates:
Call #1: Wednesday September 2nd, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #2: Wednesday September 9th, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #3: Wednesday September 16th 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #4: Wednesday September 23rd 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #5: Wednesday September 30th, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #6: Wednesday October 7th 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #7: Wednesday October 14th 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #8 Wednesday October 21st, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #9: Wednesday October 28th 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #10 : Wednesday November 4th, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #11: Wednesday November 11th, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
Call #12: Wednesday November 18th, 2026 5:00PM-6:30PM MST
EARLY BIRD PRICING: $1,200
Investment: $1,500
*3 and 6 month payment plans available.
Email taylor@taylorsleaford.com for details.
If you have more questions, book a Discovery Call with me to see if this is the right program for you.
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